I heard someone say the other day, "The real him came out." Meaning an explanation of why they were breaking up. For some reason this really stuck with me. Mom use to say it is only a matter of time before the real person comes out in a relationship and I have mentally repeated that to myself over the years making it the reason to end a relationship with someone.
Now I am not completely blind I know everything is fresh and new in the beginning . Your wearing nice clothes, He's wearing cologne, He's taking you out to eat, Your suggesting the movie you want to see. Everything is fine and dandy when your courting. Then fast forward a year or two. Your wearing T-shirts and baggy pj bottoms. You never go out to eat anymore let alone see a movie. I don't think that determines the real you.
I am not the same person I was before. I know this. Was that the real me? I really don't think anyone finds out who the real them are. OK my English teacher just fell out of chair on that one. I think we all change. That's it. We change, influenced by our family that grows, life experiences and influenced by our surroundings. There is nothing wrong with that, well as long as they are good influences. Change is what it is all about. I am changing, the world is changing.
Marketing webinars I have been on said you should be ever changing. It keeps things "new". Why does that have to be just in marketing? Why cant we all be ever changing? Boy that's alot of play on the word change!
I changed a lot after losing people in my life and because of that change I have learned to love life and learned to absorb as much as I can. I am teaching my children, telling others, and being ME!
Find yourself, or at least be open to meeting new people, learning new things, look around, and take it all in. At the end of the day it is not about dressing nice, cologne, eating out and going to the movies its about finding yourself over and over again...Until then
Keep Rockin
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